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Partners and Ex-Partners in Dreams: A Diary Study.

Michael Schredl, Lara C Wood

Clocks & Sleep May 26, 2021 DOI: 10.3390/clockssleep3020018 (opens in new tab)

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Characteristics Observational study Peer reviewed
Sample size 425
Population Students
Topics Dreaming
Keywords Romantic relationships Ex-partner
Key findings Partner dreams were more frequent than ex-partner dreams, supporting the continuity hypothesis of dreaming. Dreamed interactions with ex-partners were more often negatively toned than those with current partners, yet ex-partner dreams unexpectedly showed more positive emotions and friendliness, which the authors interpret as partner dreams being more mundane.

Abstract

Romantic relationships are an important part of human life and thus, according to the continuity hypothesis of dreaming, one's romantic partner should show up in dreams quite frequently. The present study is based on 1612 dream reports provided by 425 students. The findings confirmed the hypothesis that partner dreams are more frequent than ex-partner dreams and, thus, support the continuity hypothesis of dreaming. Moreover, interactions with ex-partners within the dream were more often negatively toned compared to dreamed interactions with the partner. Unexpectedly, we also found more positive emotions and friendliness in ex-partner dreams compared to partner dreams, indicating that partner dreams are more mundane. To conclude, dreams reflect important aspects of romantic partnerships and their break-ups and, thus, can be very helpful in psychotherapy.

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